My DailyOM horoscope today informed me that, You may feel disheartened and gloomy today, and want to be alone with your thoughts. These feelings could be the result of frustration with challenges you’re facing or a loss of motivation about your goals.
Yeah…that…or, it could simply be dark and cloudy and getting ready to rain a little more. At 7:00 this morning, it was dark like 5:00 – and right now, at noon, I’ve got the lights on in my bedroom even though the blinds are up all over the Den.
Still, the horoscope was a good read for me today. Truth is, I am feeling a bit gloomy and overwhelmed lately. Partly it is the usual New Years thing – I always get a little gloomy around New Years, because I make these impossible goals for myself every single year. Shoot, I do it every day, write down to-do lists that a team of 40 well-trained professionals could not possibly get done in one measly day…but see, on the daily list, I know that it’s actually more of an ongoing daily list. What I didn’t do today just stays on the list for tomorrow. Eventually, I’ll get it done.
The yearly list, even though I do the same thing, put down more than any human could do in a single year while saying, “It’s more of a lifetime achievement goal…”, somehow does not have the same “eh, whatever” factor when I get to the end of the year.
I get a little bummed that I didn’t do “better”. Especially since the Chaos, Holiday Edition™ around here is still in full force and won’t be receding even a little bit until Sunday evening. Geez. Normal people get to New Years and that’s it. But ooooh no, not me. I’ve still got guests and presents to buy and things that aren’t wrapped and oh yeah, I need to remember to pick up eleventy mazillion pounds of Spam for that party on Sunday…
And then I get defeatist about the whole concept of goals, and I say, “Why even bother? It isn’t like next year is going to be better! {…doom, gloom, despair, anger, resentment…}”
It’s just one of those things. I can say to myself, “Look, just don’t be that way!”, but that is exactly like telling someone suffering from clinical depression to just “be happier”.
It doesn’t work. There is a deeper psychological thing, there. For whatever reason, I’m OK with not finishing an impossible daily task, but feel that somehow I should be able to do an impossible yearly task.
Whatever.
Of course, “just don’t be that way” is probably the only real treatment I have for the condition at this point. “Just don’t be that way” is better than “let’s try drinking heavily!” or “perhaps I could throw myself off a bridge! And then I totally won’t have to carve that Spam!”
And next year, I could try not making up a Herculean list of things I’d like to accomplish. Maybe I could invent some kind of system, that does time management? Hmm, how hard could it be.
I’ll add it to the list. Between ‘go to culinary academy’ and ‘take up bio-chemistry’.
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4 comments:
Wow, I feel ya with the impossible list of Things to Do in The New Year. I spent yesterday surfing blogs and becoming more deflated and irritable. Something about all those "publicly commit to doing something every day for a year" posts really gets to me.
BTW, I don't think I've ever introduced myself properly to your bolg. I had many times read your series of posts on the fool re: debt elimination, and actually cheered a little bit when I found you'd begun a blog. My quick bio: mom to 4 boys, building a work-at-home legal writing business, alarming coffee habit, intermittent expert sidetrackee. (hmmm, Tama's taking up bio-chemistry...maybe I should look into that...)
p.s. Would you one of these days post your sandwich bread recipe? I'd like to find one I could adopt for my brood.
whoops, I meant to say intermittent blogger, expert sidetrackee. I guess the sidetrackee part is obvious.
You know, I think this time of year gets to a lot of people. You're not alone. Every year I wonder why I didn't get thinner/smarter/more organized, etc. You'd think after 42 rounds of this I'd get the picture, but I suppose hope springs eternal. Anyway, chin up! This too shall pass....with lots of coffee and some good knitting, of course. :-)
Well, sure biochemistry is fun! Oh wait, yeah, you were being sarcastic...erm...back to your regularly scheduled blog reading!
(weird that way)
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